Written by Natasha Lawrence
Welcome back to The Dating Diaries. Our rants, our raves, our first dates and our worst dates. It feels good to get this all off our chests.
A few weeks ago, I was sitting with a male friend, discussing the best dating apps available. We had both just gotten out of relationships and were ready to get back out there into the dating world. My friend said his plan was to get on Bumble. When I asked why, he simply answered: “Because the girls have to make the first move.”
Man or woman, making the first move is terrifying. Letting someone know that you are possibly interested in them takes guts. Will they respond in your favour? Will they brush you off completely? Will they laugh in your face?! Who knows! It’s all part of the risk of putting yourself out there and making that first move. And this factor, the one that moved Bumble to the top of my male friend’s list, was what made me weary and a little bit scared of the app.
It’s not so much that I have a problem being the first one to say hi – I’ve done so before in bars, and doing it behind an iPhone screen is much easier. Continue reading “A series on the trials and tribulations of our collective dating experiences”